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Are You a Warner or a Welcomer? Choices and consequences

Welcome back to Consider Yourself Hugged! Click here to listen to Episode 121. OR click YouTube below to watch! (***Disclaimer: I provide these notes as a skeleton for the show - nothing fancy 😄)

Walking through my neighborhood is interesting. We live in a new construction area with houses very close together. It’s an active, young area with an ACTIVE Facebook group (living in the age of social media!)

I walk the dogs every day, so I notice things. I am a responsible pet owner who ALWAYS cleans up after the pets and realize not everyone does. So I totally get putting a sign in your yard to encourage cleaning up after your fur babies (Click to here the rest of the story).

Remember, this is just an analogy, not a judgement on your yard signs 😁

Which are you:

A Warner: Not welcoming into your sphere

A Well-Rounder: Welcoming, but with boundaries

A Welcomer: Always welcoming


Warner (Aggressive)

Well-Rounder (Assertive)

Welcomer (Passive)

Possible Pros

Protective, goals met

Relationships with boundaries


Possible Cons

Lack of relationships

Feel used and unheard

Two Helpful Articles

Thanks for joining today! As I’ve always asked in the past, please pass the show link along to your friends and subscribe, download, and review wherever you are listening. If you’re a woman and you haven’t joined our private FB group A Place for Women, please do that now! It’ll be your source of encouragement. You can also follow my public page, Tami West Seminars.

And until next time, Consider Yourself Hugged 😘🤗

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